After our several year discovery process (to use work terminology), it was time. Time to move forward. Time to commit our lives to each other before God. Time to close our current chapter and open a new one, together. He asks me the question. I say yes. After much back and forth, we decided to elope. Elope with five people: our pastor (a dear friend) and his wife; two singers (our friends, husband and wife); and Rick’s son, Zach.
Eloped we did, after our 7 week engagement. An engagement that was not focused on the flowers or the guest list or the venue or losing weight or the perfect dress. An engagement that was focused on each other, preparing our hearts for a commitment that in the world, fails 50% of the time. But with God, can succeed 100% of the time. This is what we hang on to. We spent hours writing our vows for each other. And just minutes on where we would have dinner and what hotel would we stay at. We decided on a chef’s table at Quartino and a weekend together at The Peninsula.
Three years ago I said yes, with confidence and faith that God has a perfect plan and it just so happened that the plan was one Rick and I were a part of. I said yes to the marriage. Yes to spending my life, in good times and in bad, with Rick. For that moment, the unromantic, yet oddly perfect proposal, I am forever grateful.
P.S. I took this picture in San Francisco this past weekend, to no coincidence. I love Rick more than all the stars 🙂